As it was heard in the music: “always look at the bright side of life” and as it is in the real life: always search for the bright side.. Yeah, you should search for it, because it’s usually hard to find, if there are any bright side of it.
There are so many misunderstanding around me, and people think mostly the worst possible interpretation. And of course I can’t except others, not to think the worst, because I do the same. If I see something, which can have very different meanings, than I also think about the worst case. It’s the human nature. I can hear also words, which can be about myself, but they can be about others also, but in one case, it means a positive thing, and in the other case, it’s negative. I got the worst possible meaning about myself, because it’s like me.
You can say, I’m not self-confident, but it’s not true. Self-confidention is a huge thing and it’s not clear, who is self-confident and who not. People usually can be self-confident in some actions, but in other activities they aren’t. The other cause of misunderstanding can be that I’m jealous, and I can feel more meaning behind the curtains, than it’s really there.
An other question is about people. If they are mentally the same, I mean, they think similar, they like the same, than why can they always misunderstand each other? I know, it sounds a bit like “Why can’t be everyone else like me?”, but I think , it’s a good one, and I never gonna understand it. Yeah, I never gonna understand many-many things. People are weird, including me..